KEY OF LASTING RELATIONSHIPS.

 THE PRINCIPLES OF PERMANENT UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.

Love is the greatest gift of all, the sterling commandment of the KINGDOM. We all want to love someone unconditionally and be loved too in the same manner in return, this'd been among the major desire of Man. It's easy to fall in love and hard to walk in Love, it's also easy to fall in lust and claim to be in love, how easy to say I LOVE YOU, how easy to drench others in sweet words (see Job 20:12-16), actions speak louder than words says this adage. Before you re overwhelmed by the sweet words of a person be sure their actions justifies their words, never fall in love as a result of the sweet talks of a person, if truly they love you, let their actions speak the word I LOVE YOU.100percent of fondness exercised by people who claim to be in love today is ain't  zealous, it's not real, most of the love exhibited by men are love with conditions, love with ulterior motives which allows the manifestation for lust (see 2 Samuel 13). Unfortunately, the word I LOVE YOU might be conveyed by many individuals in a fashion of Lust, in essence, the I LOVE YOU we accept from people actually means I am lusting after you. IF YOU MUST LOVE SOMEONE UNCONDITIONALLY, YOU MUST BE WILLING TO WALK IN THE SPIRIT, walking in the spirit doesn't means indulging in all manners of religious activities, it doesn't mean being a religious creature, walking in the SPIRIT simply means WALKING IN LOVE. 

WHAT'S LOVE.

 "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs,"(see  1 Corinthians 13:4-5). Any love that is not in rhythm with those principles of Love written above will never last, love without the expression of those precept is Lust. We must drill those principles of Love in ourselves before we could exercise it to others, we must make sure we're patient, kind, proud, not Dishonored, not easily angered with our self before we begin to demonstrate it to others, for it is said, 'Thou shalt love thy neighbour (someone closest to you) as thyself" (see Matt 22vs39),IF YOU DON'T LOVE YOURSELF, YOU WILL NEVER LOVE ANYBODY.  Love has nothing to do with Feelings, Love is a commandment that must be kept, if you say you love someone dearest to you,  are you willing to keep the commandment of loving him despite his mistakes? THE METAMORPHOSIS OF LOVE FROM FEELINGS INTO COMMANDMENT PRODUCES EVERLASTING UNCONDITIONAL RELATIONSHIP AS THE RESULTS. Feelings keeps on changing, they're temporal, true love doesn't need ever-changing emotions, they need rigid precept, their reliance are not on Feelings but on the commandment manifested by the individuals who decide on loving someone to the end, it a command they keep which never trust in Feelings (see Matt 22 vs 37-38). Don't you ever fall in love because of the physical appearance of a person, that is not love but lust. Don't you ever fall in love with a person because of the jewelries and  chemistry he or she expose on her body (see Proverbs 6:25). When seeking for love, always make sure you pursue Faith and peace (see 2 Timothy 2:22). Love is Healing, Love is restoring, Love is the transformation of you to a better improve version of you, love is hope, love is joy in the Holy Gost and in life, love is peace, long-suffering, righteousness, Forgiveness, patient, sacrifices and others. Love that doesn't make you a better improve person is not love, love that cannot not heal your pains is not love, love that cannot Sacrifices is not love, love only exist and stay till eternities if only you make it a commandment and manifest it attributes. Perfect Love only exist in Jesus Christ, if you love GOD and keep HIS principles, you will never experience any death or divorce of any kind of relationship, if you must be perfect in love, you must love JESUS and strictly obey HIS PRINCIPLES and do everything for Love (see 1 Corinthians 16:14:)

PRINCIPLES OF LOVE.

1. Patient: you must be patient in love.

2. Kind: you must be kind in love

3. Zero Envy: you must not be Jealousy in love.

4. Zero Anger: you must no be angry unnecessary in love.

5. Peace: you must be at peace with everybody ( see Romans 12:18).

6. Joy: you must be Happy in love

7. Long-suffering: you must be able to tolerate in love.

8. Gentleness: you must be gentle in love.

9. Faith: you must have faith in love.

10. Goodness: goodness must exist in love.

11. Meekness: humbleness must exist in love, avoid pride.

12. Temperances: always be moderate in love.

13. Forgiveness: there must be Forgiveness in love.

This are the principles of Love. BEFORE YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH A PERSON, MAKE SURE YOU ARE A POSSESSOR AND EXERCISER OF THOSE VIRTUE.

CHARACTERISTICS OF LOVE.

Love is the only Fruit of the SPIRIT, those who walk in love are possessor and manifestation of this virtue which are joy, peace, long-suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,Meekness, temperance (see Galatians 5 vs 22).